Folge 7: Bindung

Shownotes

Problem Statement & Learning Goals: 

Welche Faktoren haben Einfluss auf das Bindungsverhalten in Beziehungen und was erwächst aus dem Bindungsverhalten?

  • Voraussetzungen um Bindung einzugehen? Entsteht Bindung einfach so?
  • Gibt es einen Unterschied zwischen monogamer Bindung und nicht-monogamer Bindung?
  • Wie entwickeln sich Bindungsdynamiken über Zeit? Und lassen sich Bindungsstile verändern?
  • Welchen Einfluss haben familiäre Umstände auf den Bindungsstil?

Was ist Attachment/Bindung? 

  • Katz, M., & Katz, E. (2021). Reconceptualizing attachment theory through the lens of polyamory. Sexuality & Culture, 1-18.
  • Bowlby, J. (1969). Attachment and loss v. 3 (Vol. 1).
  • Ainsworth, M. D. S., Blehar, M. C., Waters, E., & Wall, S. (1978). Strange situation procedure. Clinical Child Psychology and Psychiatry.
  • Shaver, P., & Hazan, C. (1987). Being lonely, falling in love. Journal of Social Behavior and Personality, 2(2), 105.
  • Fern, J. (2020). Polysecure: Attachment, trauma and consensual nonmonogamy. Thorntree Press LLC.

Gibt es einen Unterschied zwischen monogamer und nicht-monogamer Bindung? 

  • https://de.wikipedia.org/wiki/Falsifikation
  • Fern, J. (2020). Polysecure: Attachment, trauma and consensual nonmonogamy. Thorntree Press LLC.
  • Moors, A. C., Conley, T. D., Edelstein, R. S., & Chopik, W. J. (2015). Attached to monogamy? Avoidance predicts willingness to engage (but not actual engagement) in consensual non-monogamy. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 32(2), 222-240.
  • Wei, M., Russell, D. W., Mallinckrodt, B., & Vogel, D. L. (2007). The Experiences in Close Relationship Scale (ECR)-short form: Reliability, validity, and factor structure. Journal of personality assessment, 88(2), 187-204.
  • Katz, M., & Katz, E. (2021). Reconceptualizing attachment theory through the lens of polyamory. Sexuality & Culture, 1-18.
  • Selterman, D., Gesselman, A. N., & Moors, A. C. (2019). Sexuality through the lens of secure base dynamics: Individual differences in Sexploration. Personality and Individual Differences, 147, 229-236.
  • Davila, J., & Cobb, R. J. (2003). Predicting change in self-reported and interviewer-assessed adult attachment: Tests of the individual difference and life stress models of attachment change. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 29(7), 859-870.
  • Shaver, P., & Hazan, C. (1987). Being lonely, falling in love. Journal of Social Behavior and Personality, 2(2), 105.

Veränderbarkeit des Bindungsstils

  • Moors, A. C., Ryan, W., & Chopik, W. J. (2019). Multiple loves: The effects of attachment with multiple concurrent romantic partners on relational functioning. Personality and Individual Differences, 147, 102-110.
  • Davila, J., Karney, B. R., & Bradbury, T. N. (1999). Attachment change processes in the early years of marriage. Journal of personality and social psychology, 76(5), 783.
  • Katz, M., & Katz, E. (2021). Reconceptualizing attachment theory through the lens of polyamory. Sexuality & Culture, 1-18.

Einflüsse auf Bindung

  • Moors, A. C., Conley, T. D., Edelstein, R. S., & Chopik, W. J. (2015). Attached to monogamy? Avoidance predicts willingness to engage (but not actual engagement) in consensual non-monogamy. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 32(2), 222-240.
  • Der Begriff Amatonormativität wurde von Elisabeth Brake geprägt:
    Brake, E. (2011). Minimizing marriage: Marriage, morality, and the law. Oxford University Press.
  • L. Platt, R. A., Nalbone, D. P., Casanova, G. M., & Wetchler, J. L. (2008). Parental conflict and infidelity as predictors of adult children’s attachment style and infidelity. The American Journal of Family Therapy, 36(2), 149-161.

Für Folge 8 zum Thema Konsens und Verhandlung

Learning Goals

  • Wie kommen unterschiedliche Menschen zum Konsens?
  • Was lässt sich so alles verhandeln?
  • Was hilft beim Verhandeln?

Problem Statement

Wie kommen CNM Menschen zu Konsens?

Literatur

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  • Andersson, C. (2022). Drawing the line at infidelity: Negotiating relationship morality in a Swedish context of consensual non-monogamy. Journal of Social and Personal Relationships, 02654075211070556.
  • Cameron, C. A., Luft, T., Dmytro, D., Kubiliene, N., & Chou, W. (2017). Adolescents negotiating romantic relationships in a culturally diverse, urban community.
  • Couture, S., Vaillancourt-Morel, M. P., Hébert, M., & Fernet, M. (2022). Associations between Conflict Negotiation Strategies, Sexual Comfort, and Sexual Satisfaction in Adolescent Romantic Relationships. The Journal of Sex Research, 1-10.
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